Saturday, November 24, 2012

Q116: "I'M STRUGGLING WITH MY RELATIONSHIP TO WOMEN. I Use Online Pornography From Time To Time And Used To Frequent Whores A Lot Before I Was A Christian. I AM NOT MARRIED, WHAT CAN I DO?"



Hello, Pastor Columna; 

QUESTION: Me, myself am struggling with my relationships to women. I am a 43-year old male and sober alcoholic. I use online pornography from time to time and used to frequent whores, a lot before I was Christian, but now I'm already clean and sober. I AM NOT MARRIED. WHAT CAN I DO?

Sincerely yours,  

-- Jesuskabbalah in Germany


ANSWER. I can see that the reason why you are struggling with women is because you allowed your mind to be filled with forbidden immoral pictures and imagery that lead to immoral thoughts and desires. You have to immediately stop looking or viewing pornographic pictures and the sexy or nude pictures of women. 

Then you should cleanse your mind by means of the pure and clean "WATER" of God's Scriptures recorded in the WRITTEN BIBLE, as explained by the ORAL BIBLE, and reinforced by the MESSIANIC KABBALAH BIBLE (The Zohar).


For an in-depth answer and explanation to this question, go to: THE EYES ARE THE PORTALS OF SEXUAL LUSTS AND ADULTERY. Make A Covenant With Your Eyes Not to Look at Sexy Women with Lust! This is the First Step on How to Overcome Your Sexual Lusts!

IF YOU CANNOT CONTROL YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE, AND YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, YOU BETTER MARRY

You said that you are not married, and you asked what should you do. The Bible is very clear in giving the effective solution to your problem; it is written in 1Cor 7:2, 9.
  • Because of sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.  (1Co 7:2 HCSB)
  • If they do not have self-control, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with desire.  (1Co 7:9 HCSB)
Lack of self-control gives an opportunity for Satan to tempt you.
  • ... Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control.  (1Co 7:5 HCSB)
ASK GOD THE FATHER TO GIVE YOU THE RIGHT KIND OF WIFE THAT IS BEST FOR YOU!

In looking for a wife, you must first ask God the Father to give you the kind of wife that is best for you. God the Father knows you personally; your weaknesses, strengths, and potentials. Therefore, He is the one that properly knows the kind of wife you need; to help and bring out the best in you.
  • House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.  (Pro 19:14 HNV)

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